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1. Piggo🐽 (piggo@piggo.space)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 19:59:56 CEST Piggo🐽
   again wondering how do people find friends or even (*gasp*) partners. Clearly what I'm doing for it now (nothing) isn't working out. I'm ruling out dating apps, got burned out hard on that and won't put any more time or money into these
   • Ekaitz Zárraga 👹 (ekaitz_zarraga@mastodon.social)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 19:59:54 CEST Ekaitz Zárraga 👹

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     • ɗ𐐩ʃƕρʋ

     @piggo @deshipu I got married with a friend from university :) but the best way IMHO to meet new people is just to do things you like in places you are going to find other people doing them.
     IDK: go to dance classes or whatever

   • ɗ𐐩ʃƕρʋ (deshipu@fosstodon.org)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 19:59:55 CEST ɗ𐐩ʃƕρʋ

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     @piggo school and university worked pretty well for me

   • Piggo🐽 (piggo@piggo.space)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 19:59:55 CEST Piggo🐽

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     • ɗ𐐩ʃƕρʋ
     @deshipu didn't really for me, and now what
     
     though tbh I wouldn't be the first loner in my family, my grand uncle never married and to my knowledge never had anything with women
   • Ekaitz Zárraga 👹 (ekaitz_zarraga@mastodon.social)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 20:00:53 CEST Ekaitz Zárraga 👹

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     • ɗ𐐩ʃƕρʋ

     @piggo @deshipu It has to be something you like and focus on the thing not on meeting people. You'll naturally start making contact with people and maybe falling in love.

   • Ekaitz Zárraga 👹 (ekaitz_zarraga@mastodon.social)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 21:19:25 CEST Ekaitz Zárraga 👹

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     • ɗ𐐩ʃƕρʋ

     @deshipu @piggo also not feeling lonely helps to attract people. It's like your energy is different and they come to you. It's weird to say but it's true

   • ɗ𐐩ʃƕρʋ (deshipu@fosstodon.org)'s status on Monday, 17-Apr-2023 21:19:26 CEST ɗ𐐩ʃƕρʋ

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     • Ekaitz Zárraga 👹

     @ekaitz_zarraga @piggo I was going to write exactly this. Don't try to find single women that would be potential partners for you. Instead, socialize in general. Meet your old friends, even if they long ago married. Be active in clubs. Go to conferences. Give talks. Go to parties (you don't have to stay long if it's tiring). Generally be visible getting along with other people. This will first of all make you feel less lonely, and will also attract the kind of people that you enjoy being with.